Polls and activities

Take our poll or find out how healthy your relationship is by playing one of the games below (please note, these games are on the NDVF Respect not Fear website and will open in a new window).

Activities

Respectometer Find out how respectful you are and what makes a healthy relationship

Consent & consequences Explore different relationship scenarios, and find out the emotional, health and legal consequence

Excuses What excuses do people use to explain away their behaviour?

Pyramid game Helps you consider what's important in your relationship.

Current poll

Q:Have you ever felt forced or pressured into sex?

Previous poll

50% YES

33% NO

17% MAYBE

Q:Does your gf/bf call you hurtful names?

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myths about rape

Myth: Alcohol and drugs turn people into rapists

fact: Drugs and alcohol are never the cause of rape or sexual assault. It is the attacker who is committing the crime not the drugs and/or alcohol.

Myth: When it comes to sex girls say 'no' but they really mean 'yes'

fact: It's simple - If two people want to have sex with each other it should be something that they both agree and consent to.

Myth: Rape is only rape if someone gets physically forced

fact: This is not true. Rapists often use many emotional pressure and manipulative techniques to intimidate and coerce their victims rather than physical force.

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